it's crazy to have the closest best friend youve ever had and the next day be complete strangers. you pass each other and you cant even look them in the eyes because you cant let go of the hurt.

it's back to the day before you met them. now there is a person out there that is still carrying all your stories. but you are complete strangers.

I want to spend my life with you.

Because you know me better than anyone.

Because you're human in the most beautiful way.

Because you know my boundaries, and you respect them.

Because you're kind, and pretty, and smart.

I thought I just wanted to be really good friends.

But I fell in love.

You ever be riding out in your car and look at the empty seat next to you and think if I could have them right here right now I just know it would be magic. I know we would vibe. I know we would talk and it would just flow and connect. I look over in that seat sometimes and I think that’s where you belong and you don’t even realize it. And then I think about how that’s the most arrogant, ridiculous thing I’ve ever thought. But it doesn’t stop me. That’s where you should be.


You are a good person. I don’t know anything about you outside of this website but this website is evidence that you are a good person. I spend a lot of time on this site because it’s my favorite place on the internet.

I don’t know the story of how or why you created this site but I know that there are no advertisements and no one is donating anything to help maintain it. Which means the whole site is your responsibility and you don’t profit from it in any way. You literally keep this site going so people you don’t know and will never know can pour their hearts out. You provide a safe haven for people to express things that they may not otherwise be able to express.

I’ve also spent a great deal of time in the archives and have come across bullshit you’ve had to deal with from people who only want to complain, as if you owe them anything. I understand that feeling.

I’m sure at times your labor of love for this site and the people who frequent it seems thankless but I want you to know I truly appreciate what you’ve done, here. I appreciate your kind heart for wanting to spread a little love in a way that you’re able to.

I wish you would put a donate button on here or throw up some clean advertisements so that you can at the very least cover the cost of running the site. But that’s another topic, I know you’ve tried to avoid having to do that.

I just wanted you to know that I’m grateful for the time you’ve invested in this. I hope wherever you are in the world, life is handing you some good karma/vibes.

-an anonymous lover

We forget most of the things that happen in our lives. It’s like trying to cup water in our hands. Most of it seeps through but the part that sticks enough to leave your hands wet, that’s what we actually remember. And I like to think of these memories as benchmarks that we use to keep track of time. To keep track of our lives. Of all the things I’ve forgotten, all the people, the places, the favorite shoes, the meals I’ve tried, the dreams I’ve had, I remember you. You have become one of my benchmarks, one of the memories that made the cut in my head and my heart.

i'm going to marry this man

and see little curly headed children running around with his same eyes and speaking my language

i can't wait

I want to run away with you. I want to run as far as we can and start a new life together.

Message your person, don’t overthink it. Just say hello. Ask how they are doing? Show you remember them, you care to just greet them. It’s not weird, I promise, unless you haven’t talked in 20 years. Even then, it won’t be strange. Its normal to just reach out. if you needed a sign, here it is. Reach out. Best of luck

let's take care of eachother. I will hold you when you're sad. I will hold you when you're happy. I will hold you when this world seems so hopeless and I will hold you when it inspires you. I will hold you. I will hold you. I will hold you.

You remind me of a book or a piece of art that isn’t immediately appreciated. Though certain people see your astounding beauty it will take awhile for others to. Eventually, I promise you, people will value the gem that you are. You’ll be loved fiercely and forget any time you have ever felt over looked or under-appreciated.