Hold up. Wait a minute.

I'm 19 years old and crying about how I can't get a boy to like me or want to date me.

HELLO. I AM 19. I am in college. I am young. This is a time in my life where it is somewhat acceptable to be single. I can travel. I can focus on my studies. I can stay up all night with my friends and talk about everything and anything. I can focus on my career. I can do what I want. 

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  • S
9 years ago

Amen sister.

  • S
9 years ago

Jk, still want a bf.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

I'm so glad someone talked about this! You will meet someone in time when God wants you too.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

HOLLA!!!!!!

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

Hear hear :) It's acceptable to be single at any point in your life!!

  • anon
9 years ago

wow and i thought it was time i get a bf but you just gave me hope thanks

  • 25
9 years ago

Hi. I've got a just a few years on you and had actually married someone when I was your age. It was what I wanted in my deepest of hearts at the time. Well, he up and left, and I'm a single mom now. Nothing against the successful young couples that do exist, but tying yourself down so young usually isn't worth it. I'm so glad to see you've come to this realization. It's perfectly okay to be single no matter your age, and it's also completely fine to want a boyfriend. But no matter what, you should absolutely do whatever the hell you want. You'll never get these years back, trust me. Enjoy them. <3

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

you go, girl! preach!

  • Yours Truly
9 years ago

Preach!

  • 24
9 years ago

I had a boyfriend... He sucked... Because he kept me insecure about myself, my look, my personality; he was afraid I would get tired of him... And someday would met another guy more interesting than him, that would realize how interesting I was. We started to date when I was 17, at the time, I though he was the ONE and we would marry as soon as I graduated.

I dumped him when I was doing my senior year at college... And I am single now... But I have met so many interesting people, and I know it will work out when it has to! So enjoy your college years, because they're the best!

Still, I must say, my only regret is that I should have dumped him earlier!

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

That is exactly what I needed to remember right now.

  • Lu
9 years ago

I have those same thoughts all the time

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