I've never been the type of girl that guys for. I've never been asked out by a guy I like, I've always done the asking. Hell, even a guy that supposedly has feelings for me has told me I'm 'not the prettiest', and I'm his second choice anyway.

So I'm trying to stop feeling sorry for myself, and instead I'm gonna make a change. No more doormat. I deserve to be first, and I'm not gonna let anyone tell me different.

Now I just need to find a guy that will like that. :/

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  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

Next time, don't take the first step. Trust me.

  • E
9 years ago

You, my beautiful fellow LTC friend, are wonderful. You are funny and smart and insanely great. I waited for ages hating myself and believing no one would ever want me. Someone found me and my god they were worth the wait. Even though the wait was the worst thing it was worth it. You don't want some guy who treats you like you're a second choice. You want someone who knows you are their only choice and waiting will ensure this. So in the mean while stop caring what idiots like him think. You are wonderful and we are all here for you :) if you need to talk I'm here.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

I feel you. This is my exact situation.

  • The Writer
9 years ago

That guy was a complete assbutt.

I know you will find someone better than that :)

  • Keely Athena
9 years ago

This guy who apparently has feelings for you is full of cabbage. Know that you are beautiful and amazing and dungheads like him don't deserve you. Keep on being yourself and someone will love you for it, I guarantee you.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

You are beautiful and wonderful and brave in your own way. I feel you. You are not alone. This is my current situation too. We just need to keep enjoying life and let things happen. Those who deserve us will stay us.

  • Acid Rain
9 years ago

I've been there. And now I have a guy who makes me feel better than I've ever felt... And he just wont ask me out...

  • Bob
9 years ago

You know 90% of what makes some1 a girl guys go for is work right?

Instead of accepting defeat, you should use this to get into it, girl!

Diet,Sports,Posture,Salsa,Zumba,MakeUp,fashionstyle

There are a million skills, that make you more attractive to men.

  • Blue
9 years ago

I'm not sure the writer would need one or any of these things to automatically become attractive to a man. I think what the writer has in plan (to become more self-confident) is the best plan of action. Make up, diet, dance, etc should not be done in only for the place of getting a man. Those things should first make you feel good.

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