Sometimes you both admit that you like each other but you realize that you don't like each other enough to be in a relationship. 

And then you're stuck in an awkward place between friendship and relationship where you still get jealous of the other person's romantic interests but you don't feel like a relationship is the right next step. 

That's real life, folks. And I don't know what to do about it. 

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  • girl
9 years ago

High five. Feelin the same way.

  • t.
9 years ago

I can relate to these feels so hard.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

Going through this right now. It sucks.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

Me too

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

Ugh this is the worst

  • smells
9 years ago

That's exactly how I feel, except I'm in a relationship with that person. I don't think it was the right choice to progress in our relationship with one another but here I am. So it might suck as of now but you'll be glad when the right one comes along. :)

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

Seriously! I'm in the same exact position :\

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

YES THIS IS ME RIGHT NOW

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

SAME is there any advice for people like us because it SUCKS

  • lovergirl
9 years ago

I know some days it's like I like you others it's like please I dont like you that way.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

I feel this. And it sucks!

  • ~S
9 years ago

And now its been so long that i cant even see us together anymore and i dont know what to do

  • on point
9 years ago

Seriously. This is so true.

This is what they call "MU", or a mutual understanding. Two people like each other but aren't sure if a relationship is the best thing for them.

  • me
9 years ago

TRUTH

  • d
9 years ago

i can relate to this. we tried a relationship and it didn't work out, so we're back to being friends and my heart aches every time i see him. and there's nothing i can do about it.

  • My opinion
9 years ago

Maybe the person and you are meant to be together but it just isn't the right time

  • yikes
9 years ago

lmao completely accurate

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

printing this out and framing it

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

OMG YOU ACTUALLY PUT EVERYTHING INTO WORDS AND NOW I CAN EXPLAIN IT TO PEOPLE. LOVE YOU LOVE YOU LOVE YOU

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

holy shit

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

i came to the comments looking for some advice but all i see is a bunch of people in the same situation as i am.Let's cry together and wait for a solution.

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