In the same boat here. I feel this.

Wish I could drill this into my brain.

me too

me too

I dont know the circumstances and i"m sorry your love is unrequited, but he isnt obligated to choose you

^^In reply to the above comment, I think the OP is trying to say that they won't be sad that this person chose someone else. They're not saying that they felt that the person was obligated to choose them, but they're venting frustration over this person choosing someone else.

Anger is definitely a common emotion in these types of circumstances! I won't speak for the OP, just trying to clarify possibly...

FUCK HIM. YOU THE BOMB GIRL

I totally know the feeling here, but I'm not sure that a hateful feeling towards the other person is the best way to handle it.

In any case I think this is an odd choice for the front page, in my opinion....

A steam engine would explode from pressure if the steam weren't released into the air. That's why it's called "blowing off steam". Pain isn't pleasant. Sometimes, it's explosive and irrational. It's part of being human.

im dealing with the same thing, but he always comes back to me. it was us loving each other for 3 years and her knowing him for 6 months.... not fair... i get that we r far away from each other.

still hurts a lot

the fact that there was another her involved is just a huge sign that he was never worth it and you deserve better