I found a girl (who identifies as they/them) extremely attractive today. Like incredibly. To the point I pictured myself being with them. I don't know what I'm feeling. I'm feeling feelings I never thought I'd feel. I like guys, I've only ever liked guys..

but this one person is making me question everything.

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  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

Well maybe you are discovering something about yourself you never knew. Maybe it will come to nothing. Maybe you will still want guys and be with them.

Or.

Maybe you will start to find other females attractive as well. Maybe you will develop such feelings and attractions that you will realize you are bi (like me) or a lesbian.

Time will tell. Just be kind to yourself and others and you will be ok...glad you're aware and can admit this at least.

  • Anonymous lover # 2
7 years ago

I can relate! I recently found out I was crushing on this girl, and it legit turned my whole life around. She's so cute..sigh* oh I'm pansexual FYI. I haven't come out to my friends or extended family yet.

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

me too

  • Anonymous
7 years ago

If they identify with they/them pronouns then they are not a girl... o-o

  • kid
7 years ago

hi commenter above ^^^ pronoun sets don't determine gender identity and you don't get to determine someone's gender identity by looking at their pronouns!!

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