I like having "safe crushes." Like, that person to whom you're vaguely attracted, like MAYBE you would kiss 'em if the chance presented itself but you're not actually concerned with ever doing anything about it. Maybe they're a regular customer or someone you pass on the way to work every day and you don't really know anything about them except they seem cool and they have a nice face and it's fun to smile at them. Does that sound stupid? I have one of those crushes.

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  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

I used to have those when I was much younger.

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

Kind of in the same boat,for now.

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

Yeah that's normal. They're fresh blood, see?

  • natalie
7 years ago

Those are my favorite kind of crushes because my heart hurts a lil less when things don't go how I wanted

  • Holly
7 years ago

I have one of those too, a very good-looking guy who works in the office down the hall from mine. I know very little about him, so I can't say I truly like him. But if he ever decided to show interest in me, I'd give it a shot in a heartbeat.

  • E.H.
7 years ago

a "safe crush" is the best way to describe this omg

  • a.l
7 years ago

glad i stumbled across this, now i don't feel as weird for having a safe crush on a guy that i barely know!! he's got a nice face is all :p

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

You put it very well! Safe crushes = less emotional involvement = happier feelings overall.

  • stephanie
7 years ago

I wish I could have those. with every crush I care so much about them and what they think of me. I actually kinda have 3 right now (all long distance) and I am still afraid to do much,

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

i have of those crushes. now he's my boyfriend.

  • Engel
7 years ago

Omg so this is called a safe crush? XD I learnt a new word today :) i seem to be into such terms recently since I'm sort of having a safe crush on this guy who works in a supermarket near my house... Even if he's married or something I Guess I wouldn't be that sad lmfao :0

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

I have one on a guy that has been in my some of my lectures for the last 5 years

  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

i've only ever had safe crushes up until this point and i'm really scared i'll develop an unsafe one at some point

  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

i've only ever had safe crushes up until this point and i'm really scared i'll develop an unsafe one at some point

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