you cannot let your life end over a boy

you cannot let your life end over a boy

you canNOT let your life end over a boy

i just wanna believe it

11 comments add comment

  • A friend
3 months ago

Whoever he is isn't worth your life honey. Let me know if you want to talk, I'm here for you.

  • another friend
3 months ago

you are damn right.

your life doesnt start with a boy, neither will it end over a boy too! hugs!:)

  • The Chem Prince
3 months ago

Never let anyone make you get suicidal. We all have thoughts but never try to attempt. I've been there too. Just don't.... *hugs*

  • OP
3 months ago

Thank you all so much. I've just really been struggling. I had a jarring, horrible breakup 4 months ago and I'm still in it every day and I just don't feel like I'm getting through. I'm graduating college in two weeks and I want to feel proud and excited but I just feel broken and hopeless because I'm not moving forward with my best friend.

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

In five years, you will not feel 10% of those feelings. Keep going.

  • OP
2 months ago

Still here and going (: But still struggling with these same thoughts, as the break up worsened. The graduation was yesterday and we're separated for two months now, though, so here's to hoping that healing can make its way in

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

hi OP, im so sorry. its so hard. you can do it, i promise <3

  • A Friend
2 months ago

Break-ups are always difficult, but surround yourself by friends and family and find hobbies and things you like to do. Get out, stay active, and distract yourself until your thoughts aren't with that person anymore. It'll feel forced at first, but I promise, it will get better. Know we all love you and wish you well! Good luck sweetie

  • OP
2 months ago

Thank you so much for the encouragement. It's definitely needed ❤️ I just don't want to give up hope that life can feel so beautiful again. It all came crashing so suddenly.

  • Medicine_Wheel
2 months ago

I promise it goes forward. I promise that I have loved so powerfully and have lost it all and I spent four years away from him and now I can look at him as a friend and I am with someone who has changed my world. And you can too. Just give the universe or God the time to move in your life. You probably can't imagine something better atm but it is there. There is an equal anount of joy waiting to counter the sorrow and pain you are feeling.

  • Rosebud
2 months ago

I'm saying this to you, to say it to myself: you lived your life before him, & you will continue to live your life without him. Maybe he awakened new parts of you & you liked the you you were with him, but this is not the first time this has happened. Look to your friends and family. Look to past relationships. Someone is going to come along again to shake you to your core. With each new relationship in life, you learn more about YOU. And THAT is who you are sticking around for. You're the most interesting/wonderful person you will ever meet, & it's because no one else has your life. You move on with yourself. Time heals all.

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