This is how you lose her.

When your paragraph texts become a word.

When she brings it up that you seem distant but you blame it on stress.

When you don't change after she admits she's upset.

When she asks you how you are in hopes you ask in return but you don't.

When you used to text her when she didn't respond but now just let threads die.

When you make it seem like she's just a choice when she makes you priority.

When your nightly "I love you"s turn into something said once a week.

When you used to wish her goodnight but don't anymore.

When she's been crying herself to sleep every night but you don't know.

When you stop replying right away and spend hours to respond.

When you choose friends over her even if you've seen them daily.

When your nightly phone calls turn into text messages.

When forget to compliment her as you used to.

When your "i miss you"s become forgotten.

When you forget your anniversary.

When you forget the little things.

Because you don't seem to care.

This is how you'll lose her.

It may not seem like she notices, but oh she does.

Please. If you love someone. 

Do not do this.