I really think we're falling apart, and I need you to do more than just say you don't want it to happen. I fall asleep every night waiting for you to text me back and I'm beginning to wonder if it's even worth it. I love you. I really do. But I don't know if I can do this anymore when you don't seem to care. Where did the two second responses and compliments and I love yous and goodnights all go? I miss you, the real you, the one who would talk to me and tell me what's going on and not be too tired to even ask how I am. I feel like you're falling out of love with me.

If you are, just tell me, so my heart can just break and it be over.

right now it just hurts and it's kind of agonizing. Not to be dramatic.

Please tell me we can fix this.

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  • silence
6 years ago

Exact same thing I'm going through.I keep wanting them to prove that they love me but they've been doing a good job at convincing me otherwise. They've been a walking contradiction.

Sending love your way, it sucks tons when the person who claims to love you forgets to appreciate you. Talk to them about it if you haven't! I believe you and E can fix this.

  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

I know it is hard to see and hard to feel right now, but your best choice is to let go. To step away.

One of two things will happen.

Either they don't care enough which really sucks! And they don't pursue. Which hurts for a long time. But then when you heal you make way for someone who cares about you enough to keep treating you well.

Or, when they see that you have enough self-respect to walk away from the crumbs they are currently giving you, that you don't need them, they will come back because they feel freer, like your happiness doesn't depend on them so they can be free.

And then, the choice is yours.

It really doesn't feel like it now, but you do have control in this situation, you really are not powerless here.

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