fellow ltc,

please help. i'm hurting. i'm hurting so much. he left me there, without a single word and now it just hurts so much. all the smallest things remind me of him. i can't get rid of it. how can you get over somebody that you love so much?

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  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

Im in the same boat. My life is ruined because of him. I no longer feel happiness. I love him so much.

  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

Sorry for you both... when it’s real love, it hurts. I wish I could take away the pain... Time will help...thinking of what you learned and cherishing the good memories will help... finding another when you are ready will help too.

Just a warning- whatever’s you do, forgive and don’t become jaded and bitter. It’s a waste of your time and life.

  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

Hugs for you I am so sorry this happened. Just take one day at a time. Journaling might help too...

  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

so much time. That is the truest remedy. It’s been months and I’m still trying to get over my own guy, but I remember the first few weeks. He left me the same way and it felt like my whole world was ending. It felt that way for a while. And while it can still feel that way sometimes, those times are few and far between. It used to be everyday, then a couple times a week, and now it’s maybe once or twice a month. I know that the more time passes, the fewer those hard moments will be. It’s gonna be difficult, love. But those times won’t last forever, I promise you that 100%. No matter how much you feel like you’re falling apart now. You won’t feel that way forever. <3

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