If you manipulate him into destroying his dreams so you can have safety, I have nothing but the most profound sadness for your soul.

You have to be clinging to nothing, insecure and terrified of abandonment to enact such destruction on the one you claim to Love.

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  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

truth

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

well it depends on what he has committed to. A person who can't provide safety (because of his dreams) has a responsibility not to enter into any kind of situation in which he is promising safety or reliability, that he can't actually deliver. As long as he doesn't promise such a thing with actions or words, then he's good. The trouble is.. if he has. Which does happen. It is not acceptable for a person to get into a relationship in which safety, stability and reliability are expected and agreed, and then turn around later and play the 'But I have dreams' card.

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

^

This.

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