If a boy makes you feel crazy, he is not the one for you. If a boy makes you cry, he is not the boy for you. If a boy leaves you wondering, he is not the boy for you.

He wants you to shoulder the pain of witnessing his vulnerability. Not only does this make him a coward, it makes him a loser.


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  • But. . .
5 years ago

What if a boy makes you feel crazy. . . crazy in love?

What if a boy makes you cry. . . tears of joy?

And what if a boy leaves you wondering. . . how someone could ever be as beautiful as him?

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

lmfao

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

Lmao. You’re wrong because girls live for the shit you mentioned. It’s crack to them to go through emotional roller coasters.

No girl likes the boring predictable soft nice guy. They like assholes who make them wonder all day and turns them on sexually. Just cause you got burned won’t stop other girls to chasing those bad boys who make them crazy, cry and wonder.

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

I think that's the stereotype that's projected upon women, and one that perhaps a lot of women consume themselves, so they may believe that these kinds of relationships are the norm when they should not be. If you think girls actually like this i think you just need to actually ask any girl you know lmao, and not project on them that they like emotional turmoil and instability, because that Really Sucks And No One Likes That

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

Writer, I totally agree.

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

I needed to hear this today. Thank you ❤️

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

Beautifully said, OP!

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

@"Lmao. You’re wrong because girls live for the shit you mentioned..."

Don't spout incel rhetoric here. Love and be loved instead

  • G
5 years ago

@Girls live for that

Sure, but it's because they believe its normal. I myself dont want that, I want stability and if I do, then others do as well. Just talk to girls instead of making up assumptions about them.

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

Well said

  • anon
5 years ago

@ no girl likes the boring predictable soft nice guy...

a guy can turn you on and get your pulse racing with excitement every time you see them without leaving you wondering if you even mean anything to them. there's a balance. girls don't like to settle for guys they aren't attracted to, but it's not such a dichotomy that you either have a super soft boring guy or an asshole.

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