Everyone alway asks if I have a boyfriend. And when I end up telling them that I dont, they question my sexuality. I don’t get offended since liking girls isn’t a bad thing but it just makes me think. Are sixteen year olds supposed to have a boyfriend already? Since when was it mandatory to have a partner just to show your sexuality? If I was lesbian or bisexual, I would tell the world. Me not having a boyfriend just shows that I’m not comfortable to have one. I just dislike people who are quick to judge instead of learning the reasoning being it.

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  • anonymous lover
11 months ago

Don’t conform to society. Society is stupid.

  • Ladybug
11 months ago

Girl I’m 23 and I’ve been on like... 3 dates in my life. We both have plenty of time & society is horrible.

  • 25
9 months ago

Girl, I'm 25, no boyfriend since birth, and has never been on a date. Actually, no one has courted me yet. And I have to accept that maybe I will never find the love of my life in this lifetime. Sighs.

  • anonymous lover
9 months ago

Im 22 NBSB too.Don't feel pressured. Don't find love, let love find you.You're too young. Believe me :)

  • anonymous lover
7 months ago

16 whaaaa, worry about getting yourself established in your CEO position first and your happiness, then worry about ya manzzz. You get to learn who you are and what odd hobbies make your happy? That’s wild that you’re being so pressured to be in a relationship.

  • Kat
7 months ago

I know the feeling. Been single since I was 21 and now I am almost 30. By societal standards I should be married with kids by now. But I am not, so people have often questioned my sexuality. Just because an individual is single, does not make them gay. I think some people are far too quick to judge..

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