Being opposites isn’t the problem. Maybe you like winter and he loves fall. Maybe you are outgoing and he is shy. Those things can keep a relationship interesting.
The problem is when you don’t share the same values.
If you guys have opposite tastes, it’s more likely you guys may have opposite values too.
THAT IS WHAT I'M SAYING
Interests change all the time, but your value...not always
Totally agree. Even if you’re just friends and you have different values, it’s not going to work.
I really like this. Thank you
my friend and I have similar values and goals but different political views; the reason why I can stand and even enjoy debates with him is because we fundamentally value the same things