Being opposites isn’t the problem. Maybe you like winter and he loves fall. Maybe you are outgoing and he is shy. Those things can keep a relationship interesting.

The problem is when you don’t share the same values.

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  • anonymous lover
3 months ago

If you guys have opposite tastes, it’s more likely you guys may have opposite values too.

  • anonymous lover
3 months ago

THAT IS WHAT I'M SAYING

Interests change all the time, but your value...not always

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

Totally agree. Even if you’re just friends and you have different values, it’s not going to work.

  • untamed flame
2 months ago

I really like this. Thank you

  • HopelessRomantic
2 months ago

YES!

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

my friend and I have similar values and goals but different political views; the reason why I can stand and even enjoy debates with him is because we fundamentally value the same things

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