If you are in love with a girl,

I hope you tell her so.

Please don't make her wonder

And hope in silence.


Tell her the truth,

And tell her now.

Is she your bestie?

Or do you love her deeply?


Because she deserves to know...

Do you think of her as a sister

Whom it makes you sick and disgusted to touch?

Or are you in love with her, secretly longing for that touch, but so terrified that you become sick at the thought?


Think of the many ways a girl can take that reaction, and then decide... Do you LOVE her, WANT her, or USE her?

3 comments add comment

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

Ditto with guys. You’re not as different from them as you think.

  • Author
5 years ago

Ahhh yes. Well, I did confess my feelings. He; however, reminded me how my caring for him disgusted him and made him feel sick.

Sooo...

What ya got now?

Bottom line: male or female, do NOT lead someone on.

If they profess love for you and you don't feel the same, don't string them along in the hopes that you will one day... their love is far beyond your capabilities if this happens and you will move on and perhaps achieve such love. But they can not move on until you let them go. So don't play. Let her go.

  • anonymous lover
5 years ago

There are fucked up people out there who do it to boost their narcissism and they use manipulation by using your feelings as kryptonite so they can get you to do favors for them. Best to stay aware and avoid such people at all costs. This is how women get stuck in the fuck zone and men get stuck in the friend zone. The woman uses the promise of future sex to string along a man, and the man uses the promise of future commitment to string along a woman. Women should spot the player and move on to someone else. Men should spot the woman who’s using his libido against him when she has no genuine sexual interest in him and move on to another woman who will reciprocate physically.

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