Help!

Where do people go on first dates??

I need suggestions. I’m desperate.

The thing is:

- we don’t know each other super well

- I can’t invite him over because of my parents

- *** I also can’t have my parents find out

- there’s no good movies playing

My prospected time is Friday night

Help

Thanks


12 comments add comment

  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

for some of my first dates, I went out for coffee/to a café! also, even if there's no good movies playing, it can be fun to watch a bad movie together :) additionally, if there's any nice places around to walk and chat (e.g. a park, the city, etc.) that can be fun too!

  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

Maybe going out for coffee? Or really any restaurant/bakery that’s not McDonald’s? You could also just walk around and talk to each other. (Personally I think a movie would not be a good first date anyway because you can’t speak to each other during the film.) Good luck!

  • Del
4 months ago

My FAVORITE thing to do with people I don’t know well is to go on walks with them. I know that’s personal to me, but if I’m in a confined space or sitting across from them and I can’t move around my brain stops working normally lol.

So walking, outside in the open (I used to go to a local park with my first boyfriend and even after we’d been together a while we still took a walk any day/night we hung out), is always a good date idea. And you can stop at a local cafe ir restaurant if it suits you.

Walking and talking is my favorite pass-time with any friends/family/lover I’ve ever been close to.

Sometimes we’d bring food with us, or we’d bring money and stop wherever there was food and drink available. Always fun. ❤️

  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

play a mmorpg together and be in the same party or guild

  • Op
4 months ago

Thanks y’all this has been really helpful!!!! I’m really happy but quite stressed at the same time because I’ve never been in this situation before! Y’all helped calm me down

  • Oooh!
one month ago

How’d the date go?

  • untamed flame
one month ago

Would also like to know how the date went :)

  • untamed flame
one month ago

@Del walking and talking is my favourite, too! It helps me feel less nervous

  • OP
one month ago

lol I posted this three months ago and was confused why ppl were commenting on it again. I’m so shocked this got on the homepage!

The date went well. We went to a café. It was so nice! And then just recently last Thursday we went for ice cream and walked around talked for so long.

Thanks for the help!

  • untamed flame
one month ago

So happy to hear that! :)

Also, congrats for making the homepage x

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

BOWLNG, WALKING IN THE PARK. NOTHING TO EXPENSIVE

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

Awesome!! We’re all really happy for you ☺️

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