To anyone who has ever doubted if they were good enough to find someone,

If you can be happy with yourself first, learn to be grateful for what you already have in your life, do all of the things you love, and love your friends and family, you will always be enough regardless of if you find someone or not.

Finding someone to share you life with can be exciting, encouraging, and filled with love, but if you're searching for that special someone and hoping it's the validation of your self worth, then you're looking in all of the wrong places because it all starts with you.

One day, you'll realize that if someone can't appreciate you for who you are or give you the time of the day, don't try to convince yourself to stick around in hopes that you'll get that fairy tale ending.

If you learn to love yourself first and accept yourself (even if you think you have flaws), it's one of the most important things you can do. And when you love yourself and feel whole on your own, there's a chance that when you least expect it, you may meet someone special.

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  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

I think that’s so true. When you realize your flaws and accept them, work on them. When you are strong on your own and you create your self worth. Yes, I believe then you can have a chance at a solid relationship. If the other person is on a similar wavelength of course.

  • untamed flame
26 days ago

Thank you. This inspires me to work on loving myself.

  • anonymous lover
26 days ago

This is so wise! Thank you for writing this, it’s an important message to get across!

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