To LTC users,

Please don’t send disapproving comments to those who complain about their crush, talk about things they dislike about their crush or say kinda rude things about them. This is a website to rant about your honest feelings. Love is messy and complicated and people easily show their ugly sides when it comes to love. Besides, you don’t know the underlying problem. Some people have a crush who has hurt them a lot. Some people hate the fact that they are in love. Some people have issues with expressing their sincere feelings and hence resort to being negative. Some people are glad that they can point out the flaws in their crush instead of sucking up to everything they do. Some people just have a bad day. 

Please let this be a place where people can express everything they feel, not just the fairytale romance side of it all. 

-Rosa Lee

6 comments add comment

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

I get what you are saying...it's just tough to ignore how ugly some people can be. We have to read their letters, do we not have a right to express our feelings about how their letters make us feel?

  • ^
2 months ago

Keep harsh comments to yourself. They teach you this in school.

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

^

I'm never harsh with my comments. You've got the wrong person.

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

^ If anything, if the OP writes a harsh or mean spirited comment about their crush I leave a comment trying to appeal to their compassion.

  • anonymous lover
20 days ago

If they don’t want honest feedback, why share in an open forum like this? Why not just write it in a diary? Expecting people to only ever agree with you or encourage your behaviors is pretty unrealistic.

  • mod
  • moderator
20 days ago

Most times I find that when people write here, they're NOT looking for feedback unless they say so. And I don't believe that they always believe everyone will agree with them. But I think the point of Rosa's letter is to be /nice/ to people when you comment. Be respectful. Keep in mind that these situations are complicated and everyone deserves compassion and understanding. If your comment is not any of these things, I encourage you to think it over before you post it.

- Z

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