I’ve got crushes on four people. you can honestly crush on as many people as you like, Because they’re just Crushes..if you were to have sex, that’s called being Polyamourus. It’s not cheating it’s a sexuality..it exists. My cousin is Polyamourus.

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  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

This. You can take interest in or be attracted to many people. What matters is who you commit to.

  • Op
4 years ago

Exactly! Who ever wrote that post saying you can’t crush on two people at the same time, was speaking utter bullshit.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

Let’s say you are already in a committed relationship. Having a crush can be bad. Shows you are lacking something in your current relationship. Because if you truly love someone, you won’t be crushing on anyone else. Your mind, heart , and body is fully devoted to loving that one person in a romantic context. Most people wouldn’t want their significant other to have a crush on someone else.

  • ^
4 years ago

And that is where you are wrong.

  • Op
4 years ago

^ Let me Explain this fact, When a Person is in a Polyamourus relationship, it means they have more then just one Sexual Partner at a Given Time* their Significant other is perfectly fine with this, because they have accepted their partners sexuality* You C-A-N Have As Many Crushes as You Please, Even if you are in a Committed Relationship. How do you think Bastards came to be? Because someone, say the dad slept around and had a child out of wedlock. What I’m trying to say is, even Married couples have crushes and it’s perfectly harmless unless you decide to Persue that Crush. Sexually then it’s considered cheating unless you are in a Polyamourus relationship*

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