I am not your typical woman. Nor typical are you. What makes me different is not what makes you different. What makes me different is what makes me me. It's part of my wholeness.

Never think you're nothing less than whole, because how can someone be unwhole?

As a female, the word has made me think I should be weak, I should be quiet, I should be insecure, I should be cute, I should not laugh out loud, I should be proper, I should, I should, I should...

Never dare define yourself by what someone wants from you. Not by what someone else thinks you should be either.

Loving someone shouldn't change who you are. Love isn't about changing your wholeness.

Love isn't anxiety. Love isn't fear. Love isn't pain. Love isn't feeling less.

Love is sharing the whole of you. With those open to share. Love is working together. Love is enjoying together. From the wholeness and understanding of two people. Not from people who were made to think they are unwhole.

Wimmer