So let’s just say you have this best friend whom you share everything with. A best friend who is incredibly beautiful. Kind. Sweet. Caring. Giving.

Then something happens. You realize you don’t just love your best friend, but that some where along the line you fell in love with your best friend. Deeply in love.

To tell or not to tell, that is the question.

On one hand, I feel like am going to burst here. On the other, I couldn’t handle her getting weirded out and distant.

To tell or not to tell, that is the question.

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  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

That is all love is.

Please don't consult romance movies as your standard.

If she is kind, like you say she will be respectful towards your feelings and not make you feel stupid about

Liking and living her?

Whi doesn't want to be liked or loved?

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

I wouldn’t say a word...I’d be too afraid of making my bff uncomfortable but hey that is me.

  • Maybe
one month ago

To be honest, if she is really your best friend, she will understand.

My best guy friend, I see as a brother but were he ever to tell me he was in love with me, I would take it seriously and see if there is anything there, but at the end of the day, I wouldn't get weird bc I care too much to lose him.

Go with your gut on this one

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

My male best friend felt the same way about me since fifth grade and came clean about it in 10th grade! When he told me, I wasn't surprised because other people saw it before I did. Anyways, when he told me, our friendship was not ruined because that's how comfortable and close he and I were. I told him I did not feel the same way about him, but since we were really good friends before, we just continued being best friends. Nothing changed. What I am trying to say is if you're both really good friends, whether or not you both feel the same, nothing should change.

  • Lover
27 days ago

If you 'fell' in love don't tell. It is a fleeting emotion and will fade away in couple of months.

If you want to 'rise up' in love, tell :)

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