Throughout my 24 years of living, I have liked 20 guys and only one ever returned my feelings. All I have to say is wow, I must be doing something wrong. Someone once told me that I tend to like people who don’t like me and that truly was a punch in the stomach, but she is right.

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  • anonymous lover
one month ago

So are we supposed to like those that like us? Even if we don’t feel the same?

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

pls know that it’s never you!! feelings are unique and complicated and weird and them not reciprocating isnt to do with you at all but just their own feelings.

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

What I learned from all the unrequited crushes I've had these years is to never question yourself if you're good enough or not for a person. Don't let anyone be the validation of your worth.

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

And wow to you too! OP, there is such a sweetness about that comes across from your post. I'm a guy, and can tell you that you deserve lots of sweetness in return. I guess those guys weren't capable of doing so and they knew it. You were probably too good for them. Don't get down on yourself. No decent guy or decent girl should ever do that when it comes to the opposite sex. It's their problem, not yours. Just hang in there, k? Believe me, you will do well, you are due for good things to fall your way. Just be patient.

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

....a sweetness about you*..... Oops,forgot the you*

  • aries
5 hours ago

I just read this, and honestly it's perfectly alright to like 20 guys and have multiple crushes. :) I myself am currently crushing on about 5 guys, so far.

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