Nothing you encounter in this lifetime is an infringement of your free will. Hard to believe, I know. But yeah nothing can't happen without your consent prior to this lifetime even

You must of let them in your heart or else it wouldn’t bother you

There is always a lesson. Find it.

Anon1, proof your theory. If not get off my post. That's just a load of bull what you said. You can't believe what everyone feeds you. No one consents to suffering unless if they made a conscious choice of it on this earthly plain and remember it.

Anon 3 not everything in life is a lesson

We have free will, but it depends on what the frequency of the soul is vibrating. So even though we have a connection with someone we have a choice to either act on it or not.

We should just stop acting enlightened when we are not. If you can't handle your drama stop projecting. Remember you and I are in the same boat with more or less the same frustrations. No one living a decent full life even bothers of sites like these. We are just broken pieces trying to put ourselves together with these stupid crushes we have on people who don't even like us. Who in their normal heads does that, no one but us coockooo heads. Getting triggered on most posts. Trying to play dr phil. Who fucking does that. Acting like ghandi. Like really who are we fooling here.

So no it's not an infringement on your free will, but an infringement on your soul.

I will repeat again. No one in their right frame of mind agrees to suffering and dying through suffering unless they are truly aware that it is part of their life path and for the good of all on this earthly plain. I don't think babies who get killed, raped, mutilized got to agree to that, what you so insistently want to preach out here. If we agree to such things then why is there so much anger, hate, jealousy and negative things happening in the world. We wouldnt be here being delusional if we knew that it is our "soul contract" to be tortured by stupid crushed on people who dont care we even exist.