I hope you don’t think that I haven’t reached out bc I don’t want to. I do. But it would be selfish to contact you now. I don’t want to hurt you or dredge up old feelings. So I send my love out into the universe and hope you hear it somehow.
Im sure they do op
Why didn’t you reach out OP? I am not your person but I would have assumed you didn’t want to, if I was your person, too. If someone wants someone they do something.
We are both separately in committed relationships. We had plenty of chances, I don’t want anything from them, and it ended as amicably as possible, so contacting them after years just to say I love them and they’re on my mind would just serve to ease my mind (selfish) and likely hurt them and/or their relationship. Simply put, I love them enough to stay away.
Maybe you're on their mind too
Well don’t feel sorry for my SO bc they know about this. And like I said I don’t want anything from this person from the past. But considering your judgement I guess you wouldn’t understand. Everyone on here really likes to act like everything’s black and white in love and it hardly ever is.