I will never understand the correlation between a woman’s age and her attractiveness and/or value.

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  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

same here for men. I don’t get why don’t women like younger guys. Why they all want older guys? I’m never will understand this

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

There’s a correlation?

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

Anon 1: Cougars exist but younger men will likely date women within their age range

Anon 2: The idea that older women aren’t as attractive, fun/enthusiastic, interesting, etc. as younger naive women.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

Just look at Hollywood for the answers....

Old women don’t disappear; they just fade away...

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

From a evolutionary perspective, it’s because the older a woman gets the less fertile she gets. That’s why naturally men prefer younger women. Same goes for why women prefer older men. Older men, generally speaking are more mature, more wise, more successful than younger men. This makes them more attractive to women because these qualities can make taking care of her offspring much easier.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

I follow some real bad bitches on insta that are 65+ and I promise I will be that bad bitch when I’m collecting social security lol. Women tend to hand their whole self over to their family and invest more in others than they do themselves. I don’t go for that. Even if I only have a quick ten minutes, I’m going to be doing something interesting, learning something interesting, every single day. My grandpa taught me to keep being curious and you’ll never grow old.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

Why do we never address the fact that a mans sperm, from a medical science standpoint, starts to deteriorates after 35 and is likely to create babies that are unattractive and/or have physical/mental disabilities?

It’s seems like men with a fetish for younger fertile women are compensating for something.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

It’s not a fetish. It’s just human nature. With the same logic a men can say

“Why do we never address the fact that a woman’s eggs, from a medical science standpoint, starts to deteriorates after 35 and is likely to create babies that are unattractive and/or have physical/mental disabilities?

It seems like women with a fetish for older successful men are compensating for something.”

You see how silly it sounds? Both men and women GENERALLY speaking have preferences that are universally shared. Men prefer younger women. Women prefer older men. Of course there are outliers, but that isn’t the general consensus.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

I have never preferred men too far from my age range. Two years in either direction is about the most I could hack. I’ve had guys of all ages hit on me. Way older and way younger.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

Anon, that is basically the reasoning they use as to why they are more attracted to younger women as if they could do better when both sexes decline in terms of sexual reproduction.

They want a woman who’s fertile when their sperm is low quality.

Seems hypocritical to me regardless of human evolution.

And women don’t seek out “older” men per say but they want a “mature” men who can provide them with stability whether it be financial, emotional, etc.

Age wise, women are more flexible than men.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

While I am physically more attracted to people closer to my age, age has rarely ever been a barrier for me. I see life sort of like a video game. A temporary thing in which players of different skill are all on different levels, playing the same game. Our bodies are like avatars. Some might look cooler than others but you know the avatar isn’t really the person. Legit. Got your noobs, got your seasoned veterans, and everyone in between. I just have never really been able to see life by putting people in boxes.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

@Anon 10

Are they more flexible than men? Yeah I do find some truth in this . It’s more common to see a beautiful woman with a older man who isn’t “conventionally handsome” as society defines, compared to men who are more critical when it comes to looks generally speaking of course.

However from my observations I rarely see women marry younger men. Just as I rarely see men marry older women. It happens, of course, but it’s not common. But as time goes on, I would not be surprised it becoming more common.

So I do agree with you last point, but from my opinion I also see that isn’t always the case. :)

Btw I respect the fact you didn’t attack me. Your response was polite and intelligent.

  • anonymous lover
4 years ago

Look at this way- some day, male or female, you will all be dead.

So who cares?

  • Yummy
4 years ago

I have a crush on an older male but he's cute and it's not even my"daddy issues"

I think he's sexy in every direction

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