Here's the thing. You can love someone with your entire body and mind and soul and it might not matter. You can be the nicest, most caring, best person ever, and it still might not matter. You can be all of these things and more, but if the person you love doesn't feel the same way about you, you can't make them! It doesn't work that way! It's dumb as fuck but that's the way it is. You can keep trying over and over to make them see how great you are and how perfect you'd be together but it. does not. matter. After a certain amount of time you just have to realize it's not going to work. It will suck. It will hurt. But there's nothing you can do about it. Move on.

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  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

Alright, time to shut down the site Seth.

There’s no need to write here if we can just move on with the snap of a finger.

  • ^
2 months ago

thats extreme, but clearly OP is preaching to the wrong choir. If we were able to "move on" that would be great. Trust me my crush isnt that great, but still havent moved on...

  • ^^^
2 months ago

It was clearly sarcasm but yes, if we could just move on, don’t you think we would’ve done that eons ago?

In my case, it’s doesn’t help that we work together and I seen him often.

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

yeah im with ya. Also its not like i believe I'll be with my crush. I know he doesn't like me the same way and that's why i write here instead of saying it to his face.

  • OP
2 months ago

To be clear, this was meant to be advice to myself that I have no intention of following.

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

It’s good advice just a little idealistic but good luck op!

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

It's difficult as hell to accept and remember but OP's post is true.

I think it just hurts some people to have to face this that's why they come back with the rude comments.

  • OP
one month ago

Finally someone gets it. Thank you.

  • Liv
one month ago

this post is so relatable

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

C

  • @ OP
one month ago

Thank you. Some of us needed and want to hear this. The ones who tell you to silence your views are narrow minded. Not everyone thinks the way they do so, don’t mind them. You are valid.

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