Hey..I hope you've been doing okay and taking care of yourself. I’ve taken time to step back and think and re-assess things but feel like I'm not getting too far. I'm still hurt and confused and feel like I didn’t get closure, and I really want to know what’s been on your mind. It's taken me quite a while to think of what I wanted to say and get the nerve to actually send it. My hands are shaking as we speak. 

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  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

Is this to a girl or boy?

  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

Are you scared to tell this to your person?

  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

Send it. We only regret what we didn’t have the courage to do.

  • anonymous lover
4 months ago

If you sent it, let us know the outcome OP

Best of luck!

  • OP
4 months ago

I see that I wrote this letter on the 11th. I had the above written so all I had to do was hit send, then sat on it for almost a week until the 17th when I finally just sent it. He came to see me the next day. We’re reconciling and he wants to get back together. There are things he needs to address with himself and needed space to do it, is the best way I can explain. He made me feel so precious and like everything would be okay. I’ve experienced firsthand how easily people lie about these things, but I’m trusting him. He knows exactly how I feel and the ball is in his court.

Thanks for the encouragement, guys. <3

  • OP again
one month ago

I see I’ve made it to the front page. Thanks for the love <3

It was going pretty well for a while, but now I think I’m being ghosted. It sucks. I wish he’d either come back in earnest (which I’m not counting on at this point) or just tell me he’s done.

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

I hope you're okay, OP. People who ghost are cowards but they almost always pop back up at a weird time. I hope you got some closure before he vanished and that you will find all the happiness you desire. Wishing you all the best!

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