I’m scared to get into a relationship.

I know this is a toxic mindset but I don’t think the vast majority of men are satisfied with one woman throughout their lifetime.

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  • anonymous lover
yesterday

It’s not just men. Humans are not wired to be with just one partner for life. It’s something we have molded and trained ourselves into for security purposes

  • OP
yesterday

Do I remain single then because I’m not interested in open or poly relationships and I don’t want to tell someone else how to love their life.

  • anonymous lover
yesterday

Dear writer, are you scared due to the experiences you have had with men?

  • anonymous lover
yesterday

There are still loyal, faithful people in the world, don't be discouraged.

  • OP
yesterday

Sure, that plays a part but I don’t think morals play a part in this, I genuinely believe that humans are hardwired to be this way and I’ll never be loved the way I want to be loved.

  • anonymous lover
yesterday

Humans do not contain any wires. And you feel like ypu are the sole rare individual that feels this way?

  • OP
yesterday

I never said that and I’m not sure why you would take my words so literal. I’m sure you knew what I meant.

That said, I feel like I’m capable of suppressing these urges without feeling like I’m repressing myself, if that make sense. I’d imagine men often feel depressed or irritated in a monogamous relationship when they aren’t allowed to get to know other women in a sexual/romantic nature.

  • anonymous lover
yesterday

Some people feel that way. Some don't.

Find someone who you share common values and beliefs with. It'll save you time. When you know yourself, you know your standards and what you're looking for.

Also, the people who are around you, your environment also plays a crucial role. Just find your medium in life.

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