With the way we looked each other, there’s no way you haven’t thought about it. You know. I know. There’s something there.

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  • anonymous lover
one month ago

My person and I both know. We both felt it. There is no way he didn’t.

  • OP
one month ago

I don’t see how they could brush it off and forget about it since it happened way too many times between us.. Unless that look happens often for them with other people.

  • anon 1
one month ago

I Know...:that’s what I’m thinking about. Unless it’s normal for him and those gazes happen often with other women

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

I had this with my crush. In fact, he is the only person I’ve ever had this with. It’s just an indescribable feeling.

Funny thing is, I actually analyzed his actions and quirks based on tidbits of info he shared about himself. I was able to type him. He is an INFJ. I joined a bunch of mbti groups to learn more about people. Apparently, the INFJ stare is a thing.

Google: INFJs usually get so swept away by their curiosity that they stare directly at people's eyes without feeling uncomfortable or intimidated at all. The intense, piercing stare is usually their natural process of analyzing the object of their interest and a defense mechanism if they feel insecure in specific situations.

^^that’s literally him lol. And I thought it meant he really liked me. I fell for him, hard. But aside from that stare, there were no other indications that he was into me.

I’m not going to entirely dismiss it. It could have meant something. But based on all of my research I’ve done, it doesn’t always mean what you think it does.

Hearts are so fragile. I hate that mine was broken over nothing.

  • ^
one month ago

Sorry anon....with me it was a stare, and there were awkward communications...and lots of blushing, and them trying to talk to me. But then...all of a sudden things changed and all this stopped. We aren’t talking now.

  • Anon 3 or 4
one month ago

I had this with her, a awkward stare like you almost didn’t know what to say next or you almost couldn’t speak at all. I have never had this with anyone else like that and I miss it

  • Anon 3
one month ago

^ I know what you mean last anon. I’ve had this with my person. There was one time when we’re just stared at each other without saying a word. I’m sad that nothing came out of it and I wish he said something.

I hope you find your way to each other!

Good luck

  • OP
one month ago

I know it’s selfish of me to say this, but I’m glad there are people on here that can relate. It’s nice to know we’re not alone in this. I wish I could run into my person again and just hi. I wasn’t the best version of myself when we met.

  • OP
one month ago

I know it’s selfish of me to say this, but I’m glad there are people on here that can relate. It’s nice to know we’re not alone in this. It’s probably late for anything in my situation, but I wish I could run into them again and just hi. I wasn’t the best version of myself when we met. Maybe I could get the closure I needed.

  • OP
one month ago

Oh it posted the first time lol. My bad.

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

I’ve been there. The looks are intense but they’re not enough to make anything happen. Only actions make something happen.

  • OP
one month ago

Agreed. ^

Someone’s gotta make a move.

  • anonymous lover
one month ago

Truth be told. I have.

  • Scarlet
25 days ago

i love this letter so much because it took the words right out my mouth.

i've felt it, written about it and dreamt about it.

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