There is no room for nuance with you. You want to dictate, not to understand. you are cold and unjust.

And all you’ve proven is that you don’t actually have much sympathy for or actually like women.

It was all I could do not to lose myself in the non relationship. Whilst he was quite comfortable as he was.

And I suspect... I suspect that he ‘stopped looking’ because you interfered. Not because of anything I did.