Can you imagine what it must be like to be with your perfect person and them to also feel like you are their perfect person? Where you both are just mutually attracted to each other on the same level of intensity and you both equally admire each other. That has to be one helluva feeling. Not saying you don’t have disagreements or whatever but like at the end of the day, there is no one else you would rather be with and they feel exactly the same. I find it so hard to believe that people just naturally fall in love with each other and neither feels pressured to change. They’re just an ideal match. Can some of you share examples if you’ve ever witnessed that sort of relationship?

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  • anonymous lover
3 years ago

I’ve seen it in Disney films.

  • b
2 years ago

23 years single. 23 years of people who i always thought would be perfect if things were slightly different. If i weren't so annoying, if they would text more, if we had more things in common. Then i met this silly boy who is somehow exactly like me in all the right ways, and different in ways that compliment me. We aren't perfect. He annoys me, I annoy him, and yet we never forget to say I love you and we would always rather be with each other than by ourselves, even if it means we're in opposite corners doing our own thing. I just want him near me. I want him and all his flaws and his quirks. He likes my witch laugh and still hugs me when i'm loud and insecure. 25 years and now i finally know. Ah, fuck. It's real. I promise.

  • S
2 years ago

I had this... I had all of this. ?

Until they murdered him two years ago...

  • S
2 years ago

He had such a pure heart and the biggest smile... everything about him radiated love.

Everything you could ever ask for when you imagined building the perfect person.. not saying he was.. but every quality I could have every imagined for me. He had.

I don’t think the sadness will every go away, but I keep those memories with me. Wrap myself in them like my favorite sweater when I miss him most.

(sorry for the rant it just helps me cope on bad days like these.)

I hope everyone who’s experiences this basks in its greatness. You are all enough and you are deserving of it.

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