He gives good advice. He thinks with his head, and his head is on good shoulders. If I asked him what I should do, he'd tell me to stop talking to you because I'm setting myself up to get hurt. But you are him. He is you. I like you. So should I take your advice?

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  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

Ouch don't ghost him!

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

No you should tell him, it’s not fair to mislead him. Be honest, maybe he feels the same

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

Don't take advice from men. They've never lived the reality women face. They can't understand.

Women should never take advice from men. Men are self focused and cannot understand the expectations women are forced to meet.

Please don't hand your power or influence over to a man.

  • OP
2 months ago

^This doesn’t apply to my situation at all, and I also disagree with you. Men should not give advice on women’s gender-specific affairs, but why should I not confide in a man whose opinions I generally respect and agree with?

  • anonymous lover
2 months ago

Exactly OP don’t listen to that poster. There is a lot of gender based bitterness on this site. You should tell him how you feel, if he gives good advice and is good person to confide in he won’t mislead you

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