I'm only interested in reality not fantasy. I am only interested in words that are backed up with actions, consistently, over time. You've devalued your words so much because of your lack of integrity and dishonesty. It wouldn't matter what you said you me now, it would mean nothing to me.

Only actions. Consistent, congruent actions aligned with positive relationship values. Repeated over time. That's all I'm interested in.

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  • anonymous lover
2 years ago

It’s a shame you didn’t show these,

And it’s a shame you didn’t get to know me.

It’s a shame you allowed others to destroy me, rather than take initiative.

I had plenty of integrity. I also had the usual level of confusion that comes with overwhelming feelings of love.

If I’m dead tomorrow, it will be your fault for shaming a genuine person, and you won’t care.

  • ^
2 years ago

Please get help anon. Reach out and talk to someone you trust. I'm the OP I guarantee I'm not shaming you. Like 99.9% certain. And I love my person despite all of this but I realise he's very harmful to me which is why I must draw strong boundaries.

  • anonymous lover
2 years ago

^ok thanks op. Guess your person is a guy? Would help to reassure me as I’m not. And sorry.

  • Op
2 years ago

Yes it's a guy. I know how it is to get really projecting on these posts and be convinced it's your person. But it's super super unlikely. This site can be quite compulsive if you're struggling with relationship issues but it's sometimes useful for me to take a break. Please take good care of yourself anon. No one is worth more than you and no one is worth harming yourself over. I say that as someone who isn't currently suicidal but gets that way.

Remember to breathe. Sending love stranger ?

  • anonymous lover
2 years ago

Thank u ^

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