Here for a new crush, falling into the same traps. Best friend type, ”no, you’re the bully”, jokes and banter and fun and the occasional dollop of sweetness that makes all the teasing so, so worth it... but I know he’s like this with everyone, not just me. My question is, how do I set boundaries so I don’t get hurt? I’m trying not to wait for his messages anymore (he can take days to reply sometimes), trying not to obsess over his active status, trying not to expect another invite to play games together. But is that all I can do, really? (At least I’ll have gotten a friend out of this mess.)

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