‘I want to help you but also I’ll flirt with you because I can do what I like and your feelings or perspective aren’t really important to me’ is an attitude any woman can do without. Especially a woman over 30. From a man or a woman. If you want to be taken seriously, take me seriously too.
*sends note to person I like*
‘You’re a hypocrite, a user, an abuser’
*inflicts psychological terror on somebody they have little knowledge or experience of for kicks*
‘I’m a good person, a humanitarian, righting the wrongs of an evil person’
There. Is. No. Justice. I hope you’re sleeping soundly tonight, actual abuser.