Has anyone ever felt like you screw it up with every guy you like?
You get so close to dating and then bam. Somehow you screw it up.
I was under the impression that I was always the one messing things up, being too clingy, not pretty enough, not funny enough, texting them too much.
But I'm tired of that nonsense.
It's not you. It's them.
You need someone in your life who can handle your 10 texts in a row when you read their message and don't reply. Someone who will still tell you you're beautiful when you send them a selfie with no make up on.
Someone who will laugh at your lame joke and won't tell you it was stupid.
You deserve someone who will love you unconditionally regardless of how attached, emotional, and love struck you are.
We all do. And I really hope there's someone out there for each of us to prove it.

6 comments add comment

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

So, this is basically my life. Thanks for writing this.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

Thank you. Needed this.

  • anonymous lover
9 years ago

I love you

  • ddd
9 years ago

word. everyone has their own preferences & no one is obliged to be together with someone while compromising what they want in a partner:) everyone should just be together with someone that wants and likes them for who they are!

  • ~~~
9 years ago

YO. My boyfriend sometimes wakes up to 30+ texts from me telling him basically my every random thought...and he genuinely loves it. He loves that I come to him over any other person to tell him about my random thoughts about life or my day or my weird outbursts. Go find a guy who appreciates all you have to offer because nobody else is worth you!

  • M
9 years ago

I've been where you are. I know the feeling. It sucks. But one day you will go through what I went through. In some twist of faith you end in a conversation with a guy and you are completely dumbfounded to see that he actually listens. He actually replies fast. He actually gets your humor. You will find him. And you'll be dumbfounded as I was.

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