You see me walking down the street, holding my boyfriend's hand. You see me kiss him on the cheek while waiting in line for coffee. You see my goofy post about my boyfriend's silly faces. You define me. Straight.

I feel I'm harboring some secret, so I confide in you. My friends, my family, many are confused. 

"But you're straight."

"But you're confused."

They don't understand. 

Just because I've found my soulmate, doesn't mean I've "chosen a side" or "decided". I know what I am. Who I have chosen to love doesn't make me any less bisexual.

5 comments add comment

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

You still gotta choose eventually.

  • Anonymous Human
7 years ago

Excuse me, anonymous lover, but they do not have to choose. Being bisexual is who they are. You don't choose who you are. But I think it's amazing that they know who they are.

  • E = hv
7 years ago

Being bisexual means that they have the capacity to love both their own gender and another. Dating a guy or a girl doesn't automatically make them "straight" or "gay". At the end of the day, while they may be in a heterosexual or a homosexual relationship, they can still identify as bisexual. The relationship they are in doesn't define their sexual orientation.

  • anonymous lover
7 years ago

This is so true!

  • anonymous lover
6 years ago

im a bi too but I still have to choose hahaha what a sad life. and I wish for everyone a happy day. Good luck for ur life.

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