How do you know you’re in love with her?

Admire her from afar but don’t act on impulse and jeopardize your relationship with your gf.

cause I want her to be the first person I see when I wake up.

I want her to sit right next to me at all times, laugh, talk about anything... and a lot of stuff. I can go on and on and on.

She's like everything I imagined what I want my future wife to be.

Alright, so is your current relationship not fulfilling enough? Are your guys growing through a rough patch?

The grass isn’t greener on the other side you know.

my current relationship? I try to make it as fulfilling as possible. No relationship is perfect. My fear is that she's not working on herself even if I push and give her the freedom. It's the little things that hurts a relationship the most.

And what do you wish she would work on and how is that straining the relationship?

We're at the stage of somehow wanting to settle down. But seeing her, I don't think she's someone I would want to settle and trust my life with.

In other words, you’re just falling out of love with her or you never reciprocated the love to begin with.

Not judging. But are you sure that your feelings for the new girl isn’t lust? People get love and lust confused and that can tarnish a relationship and lead to infidelity.

You might want to take the time to closet reevaluate your feelings and the outcome of said feelings on all parties involved. Good luck.

Never reciprocated? I got cheated on several times by the girl that I am with. I kept telling myself that I Love her. And I had to deal with a couple of troubles because I Loved her.

Lust? I don't think that this is lust by any chance. I have been abstaining for quite sometime now.

I have been taking my time. I'll just let things flow naturally.

She cheated on you several times? Damn son, why didn’t you mention that in the first place?

In that case, the heart wants what it wants.

I don't really like mentioning that. People would often think that I'm too dumb for letting her do me wrong several times. But you guys don't really know who I am to call me dumb in person. ?

good luck with whatever you choose to do