‘I want to help you but also I’ll flirt with you because I can do what I like and your feelings or perspective aren’t really important to me’ is an attitude any woman can do without. Especially a woman over 30. From a man or a woman. If you want to be taken seriously, take me seriously too.

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  • anonymous lover
2 years ago

What you just quoted doesn’t even make any sense to me. A person actually said that to you? If so, you shouldn’t even touch them with a 50ft pole lol!

  • op
2 years ago

No it’s just a vibe several people have had with me. Kinda flirty but also condescending and it ticks me right off.

  • 1st anon
2 years ago

^ Ahh okay I see. That sounds pretty shitty lol. Sorry to hear you experience that sort of thing. I wouldn’t give those people the time of day afterwards.

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