You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Rejection sucks but doing nothing is a guarantee you won't get what you want.

Meanwhile, it's not your responsibility to convince a person to like you.

Silence means they don't care. You're allowed to take it personally because it is personal.

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  • anonymous lover
2 years ago

Is this just general advice, or to your crush?

I took several shots and missed, I think they do care but not in the same way as me,

I did take it very personally, but loving a person as they are means trying to understand their perspective and not controlling them.

  • OP
2 years ago

You can't control other people anyway. Eventually they find a way to do what they want to do. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. You're not alone. I hope the pain doesn't last long.

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